An overall spirit of inclusion and welcome pervades the atmosphere at BMSL. All the volunteers were positive, friendly and happy to help make everything just right. Ms. Regina, the Presenter Coordinator for BMSL, picked up Little One and me from the airport, and made us feel like we were long lost relatives from across the country flying into town. Everything possible was done to make our experience at BMSL both enjoyable and effortless for us and that attitude extended toward the attendees as well as the Presenters. Roxy, one of the Presenter Assistants, who is also Ms. Regina’s wife, was one of those solid, dependable individuals who worked tirelessly behind the scene to keep everything running smoothly and would immediately take care of any glitches that might arise.
There was a special “Meet and Greet” for Presenters and the Volunteers who were working the event and were therefore unable to attend the Workshops, and there were other more private ones so that the Presenters could get to know one another in a more social setting. There were desert buffets and late night prepared snacks for all Attendees and the Hotel had apparently made the humorous observation to the Event Chair, J-Sin, “Wow! This group sure does eat a lot”.
A month or so before the Event, Little One and I had become friends with a Poly Family on FetLife before arriving in St. Louis and in fact, the reason the three of them actually came to the Event was because we were going to be there Presenting. Coldblade, Lenaloves and hellzangel were eagerly waiting to meet us after communicating back and forth via Fetlife. Little One and hellzangel, while on line, had cooked up a Whip Scene suggestion for me and hellz and, quite naturally, I agreed to the Scene.



Hellz was what I call a ‘whip virgin’ that I planned to deflower on Friday evening. I didn’t think it could be possible but she was smaller than Little One and, like her, is a firecracker. She was a bit nervous as we began our Scene; however she soon warmed up and arched her body forward as I begin to caress the front of her tight little body with my hands and whips. She fell into it very well. After a time, I turned her around and as I started whipping her back and hot little ass, she began rising up on her toes. In retrospect, I think that I was pushing her a little too hard; however I must admit that I like to have my whip bottom struggle with the experience a little bit…(Well actually sometimes quite a lot!)
Later on in the evening at the BMSL Dungeon, I did a Scene with Little One using the outside of the BMSL Jail, which is a beautiful cage she used as a climbing rack for her reference point as I begin to whip her. The Scene was a very dynamic, hotly intense and an expressive experience. Throughout the next two days, various people would frequently stop us in the hallways and rooms to tell us that the emotion and connection they witnessed between the two of us, was communicated to them directly during our Scene. Please click on this FetLife Link to read more about our Scene and how other people responded to it.
My Workshops were well received and I had the added welcome surprise of my mentor and friend, Roger Stevens show up unexpectedly in both of them. Roger and Marcy, his submissive of many years, live nearby and were attending BMSL. Later on in my advanced Whip Workshop, I invited Roger to ring the silver bells hanging from Little One’s labia rings. He totally intimidated her by cracking his Signal Whip loudly about one half inch away from her bells, frequently ringing them in the process. At my invitation, Roger and Marcy came back to our room to talk, take Fotos and Roger spontaneously began to scene with my Little Girl. You can read more about her experience in her post.


Another highlight of BMSL was a Scene I did with Rita Seagrave, a lively, beautiful and sensuous redhead who presented several workshops at BMSL She and I felt a “ping” when we first saw each other Thursday evening and by Saturday I asked her to play that evening at the Saturday Dungeon Party. Prior to our play she gave Little One and me a HOT Lap Dance which set the mood nicely. She was everything and more than I could have expected or hoped for in our Scene. She is delicious and hot.

Please do take the opportunity to attend any of the extremely well coordinated, enjoyable and exciting Events put on by these Saint Louis Kinksters. Upcoming in November 20-22, is “Spanksgiving 09” I encourage everyone to attend one of their events and experience some of what Little One and I had the great joy to encounter at BMSL.
Beat Me in Saint Louis - March 27, 28 and 29, 2009
I am very pleased to be presenting three workshops at BMSL. They include an “Intermediate Whip Workshop” an “Advanced Whip Workshop” and a “Hands on Practice Workshop”.
“The Hands On Practice Workshop” is a special event to allow all the participants in the Whip Workshops to have extra time to practice in an in-depth way with plenty of time for coaching. People can also borrow my whips to get a feel of different makers’ style of whips to help them decide what type of whip to buy.
For several years I have heard about “Beat Me In Saint Louis” which is a well known Premier Kink event in the USA. I am honored that they are bringing both Little One and me to Saint Louis for this event. If you have been reading my Blog, seeing me at Kink Events or following Little One or me on FetLife, be sure to introduce yourself and say “Hello”.
Regester now and yes, “Meet me in Saint Louis!!”
There are times when I will whip my play partners while they are in Rope Bondage and whipping a person in this particular “consensual predicament” presents some very unique challenges. First off, they are usually unable to process the pain from a whip strike as easily as they can while they are unbound and most bottoms like to move at least a little, so that they can convert the pain into a more tolerable experience. Secondly, in some ties, the placement of the ropes will block strikes to some parts of their body, therefore I am limited to clear areas where the rope is not covering their skin so that I can hit them with the whip.
An exception to these Whip/Rope limitations is to use a long Bullwhip to do wraps on the bound person. Over the past several months, I have been wrapping and then spinning Little One while she is suspended and she has taken to suspension like a duck to water. The first time I had ever done this was quite a spontaneous event and happened while we were playing at the Center in Seattle. For me, this was a very hot and compelling Scene which left both of us very high and, soon after, several people approached me to express how much they really liked and enjoyed the dynamics of our Scene.
I mentioned to Maria Shadoes what I was doing and she invited Little One and me to their beautiful country home so that she could do some Scenes where she could suspend Little One and have me wrap her with the long Bullwhip. We shot video and still images of those Scenes and Maria has, or will soon have, it available on her site to download.
Since Camp Paradise, Michael Sol has suspended my Little One numerous times and, while he was just here in Seattle over this past weekend, he invited us out to Jakesters stunning, owner built house which is in a fantastic location on a huge bluff overlooking a valley and raw wilderness. Jake has built a large tripod on his front lawn so that he can suspend people in front of this magnificent vista and he has also installed into the ceiling of his living room a hook, cable and winch for this specific purpose during inclement weather . Since I had finally returned the long Bullwhip which Todd had so generously loaned to me for the last few months, I was able to use Jake’s perfectly broken in “Royce a.k.a. “Rooster” 6’ Bullwhip” to use on Little One while she was suspended outside under the tripod, and I fell in love with that Whip! (If anybody knows anyone who has one of these whips from Royce that they are willing to let go of, please let me know. I would be most grateful.)
The day we did this Scene was Sunday, November 23rd and it was clear and very cold outside with the wind blowing at least 15 MPH. In the following photos, you will notice Michael has a coat on and that I am bundled up with a leather shirt and denim jacket while my Little One was dressed in a white lace body stocking and freezing her ass off. In some of the first photos we took, you will see her howling like a Wolf to process the cold, however when Sol finally got her off the ground into a full suspension, she did not seem to feel or even notice the cold and began to play, turn and twist in the ropes while I cracked the smooth handling, well broken in whip and wrapped and spun her in the crisp winter air.
Little One is becoming quite the Rope Slut Model and it is easy to see why. She is fit, athletic, beautiful and very acrobatic when suspended and I do not wish to ever tie her hands because she literally takes wing and flies.
Fotos at Maria's






Fotos at Jakesters, Bondage by Michael


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The Sagacity Kink Events in Victoria, B.C., Canada, are ‘must attend events’ for anyone in the Alternative Lifestyle. If you are able to fit any of them into your schedule, please consider doing so. Their website is http://sagacitygroup.net/main and all of the events are unique and fun. They have a Beach Party, a Saint Paddle’s Day P.J. Party, a Domlander Fetish Competition Play Party and more.
I have just returned from their Birthday Bash where I taught my Advanced Whip Workshop and Spanking Workshop. The Birthday Bash is their premier event and about 200 people were in attendance.
The Birthday Bash is a classy event which was comprised of a Friday Evening Black Tie Optional Meet and Greet with cocktails available, an Erotic Art Show and a dance with a terrific live band. Saturday was filled with Workshops on a wide variety of subjects, a very nice lunch for all in attendance and an evening Play Party with plenty of room around the play equipment for whips, floggers and flying fists.
My Workshops went really well. Lena attended the event with me and was my Spanking and Whip Model for my Workshops. Guys (and many women) are always happy with Little One and Lena as my models. This time forty percent of them mentioned on the Workshop Evaluations that the model was what they liked best about the Workshop....Hmmmm… I think that no matter how much I sharpened up the Workshops this weekend I would have still gotten that same response.
Sunday was a time to meet for breakfast, have conversations with new and old friends, and then board the Port Angeles Ferry for a nice boat ride back to the States.
As an addendum, here is a tip for crossing the border back into the U. S. A.
When the Customs and Immigration Officer sternly asked how long we had been in Victoria and what we did there, my response was that we had attended a weekend BDSM event in Victoria. He looked confused, mouthed the initials BDSM and was about to ask what that meant when I added that it was an S & M Event. He turned bright red, mumbled something and waved us on through.
Photography is not usually allowed at Kink events, however I have included some fotos of Lena and me playing at other times. Fotos were taken at the CSPC Photo Party by Jim Duvall and Kilawama.






I am thrilled to be teaching two workshops at the Sagacity Birthday Bash in Victoria BC Canada November 7-8 2008, an Intermediate/Advanced Whip Workshop and a Spanking Workshop. I taught a workshop at the Birthday Bash two years ago and loved the energy and friendliness of Ladyfish and all the people there. Please check out their web site Sagacity Birthday Bash. If you are lucky perhaps you can still attend the event.
Ladyfish says:
Sagacity enters into its 9th year of socialising and sharing with gatherings, workshops, and play parties. Sagacity is the largest group of kinksters on Vancouver Island, and looks forward to presenting a weekend extravaganza of fun and learning.
Join us on November 7th and 8th at Victoria's Harbour Towers Hotel & Suites as we offer up workshops by fabulous presenters, erotic art and presentations, exciting and innovative vendors, and a play party you'll have trouble keeping a secret! Sagacity is extremely pleased to have the Randy Tucker Band whipping out tunes to make you want to hit the dance floor!
This the premiere fetish event in Victoria and we hope you will plan to join us and spend the entire weekend!
The Kink Events that I have attended have been educational, interesting and just plain fun, yet the deepest pleasure of these events is in meeting new people, old friends and developing close lasting connections through talking, playing and sharing deep experiences. I make an effort to be as open as possible to new people, ideas and experiences while being ready to stop and talk while wandering around the grounds of the Event.
At The Floating World, we were fortunate enough to share a room with Lolita Wolf and her date. The friendship that developed through shared experiences, talking and play was quite memorable and will be long lasting.

Lolita & Lil'One Messin' Round / Lolita's Date Posing as Security,Cavity Searches Lil'One
One of the more unusual shared experiences was the Monday morning Hotel Fire Alarm going off at 6:00 AM after just going to bed at about 3:00 AM. We barely heard the alarm (they really do need to make the alarm louder in this Hotel) and groggily got up, left everything in the room, walked down the stairs and into the parking lot. The sun was just coming up and the parking lot was filled with sleepy disgruntled Kinksters, Fire Trucks and very fit looking Firefighters.

False Alarm Lil'One flirting with a fireman
Another person we met is Shibari Warrior, who owns a beautiful Dungeon in Philadelphia, PA. (Well at least he did until he was sabotaged and got shut down a mere week after the Post TFW Party however He has informed us that He will be opening another Black Phoenix Dungeon very soon.) He invited Little One and me to come over to Philly on Tuesday, after TFW and play in the space so we took the train from New York City toward Philadelphia, which was an hour's journey through interisting small towns and beautiful scenery.
Shibari Warrior met us at the train station and we continued on our journey in his car to the Black Phoenix Dungeon, which He opened up especially for us and enlisted the services of Dov, a terrific Photographer and Bondage Expert to photograph our Scene. We also met their friend Zelda, now our friend too, a beautiful blond Kinkster who allowed me to whip her after my Scene with Little One. She loves whips and is an erotic, sensually delightful creature to play with, it was a very hot scene. Because our play ended so late and the trip back to NYC would take several hours, Zelda invited all of us to stay overnight in her nice country home in New Jersey.
Black Phoenix

The Lounge Main area

Scene Space Ready for Whips
It is a pleasure to have a connected feeling with dear Kink friends across the country and in the Northwest too. I would like to invite all of you, that whenever you go to a Kink Event, to stay open and receptive to new experiences, new friends and realize that we are all connected one to another in this, our chosen Lifestyle.
My Fire Experience
Here it was, Sunday night and the final day of The Floating World Event in New Jersey. Daddy and I were preparing for his Whip Workshop, the last of three Presentations He was giving when He came over, pulled me in close to Him and casually asked me how I felt about “Fire Play”.
My instant response was, “Oh Daddy! You have known that ever since we saw that Fire Scene done by Ellwod at the 2006 Sagacity Birthday Bash in Victoria, I have been exceedingly curious about it! Why do You ask?”
He said, rather blandly, “Oh, just because I was thinking of taking a Class on it.” He then walked off and left me with the business of preparing Handouts for the Participants.
We were pleasantly surprised by how well this particular Class was attended, especially since it was the very last Class scheduled, being held from 10:30 PM until Midnight. We had the usual folks who were reluctant to leave, those who had more personal questions, those who wanted to seek further information and those who wanted a deeper, more intimate connection with the two of us, so by the time we cleared out, it was nearly half past Midnight.
“Daddy,” I asked as we gathered up our materials and exited the Class Room, “are we going to do a Scene tonight,” and He, being ever so succinct, turned to me and said, “Yes, Little One. ‘Q’ the Event Photographer is going to do a Fire Scene with you.”
Speechless, I gaped at Him in open mouthed wonder as I felt a deep, driving need surface like a Phoenix from the ashes. A need so primal and real that I have found myself throughout my life participating in high risk sports and adventures just to see it met and fulfilled. This was the adrenalin rush of being held on the ‘sweet edge of terror’, something akin to diving with and feeding sharks, which I have enjoyed immensely. The edge that is so far out there that it somehow merges with Universal Consciousness and I become ‘All That Is’.
Fear and excitement, which are basically the same experience in the body, bubbled furiously within me as we walked to the Fire Play Space. This was like a dream come true and I began asking Daddy a thousand questions at once, not one of which I remember, nor His answers.
He said, “Q was absolutely hot for you, Little One, and He asked me if He could do a Fire Scene with you. “Q” tells me that he has been learning about Fire since Boy Scouts and has using this element for decades with some of his close-up magic tricks, however it has only been during the last two years that he started using Fire in his Play Scenes.”
Daddy further found out that “Q” had learned this type of Fire Play primarily from Pyro Sadist, of Needle Play and Helen Fluterby, Member of TES who lives in NJ. He has attended many Workshops and had practiced on himself for weeks before he practiced on others. From the very first time he shared this with another person, he felt an immediate connection and response and was hooked! Whenever he can, he attends various Workshops to learn more about Fire Play and has even begun to develop some of his own techniques.
“Little One,” Daddy said, “I would never let Him near you if I did not feel that He could be trusted,” and I found myself even more excited than ever about the prospect of playing with a “Magician of Fire Play” because all my life I have loved magic and everything about it.
I was both bemused and once again amazed at His statement because I had no idea that this man was all that interested in me. Daddy did tell me though, that on Friday night when He did our Whip Scene, the Event Photographer went wild shooting us from every angle because He wanted to capture the raw passion, eroticism and sensuality which He saw vividly portrayed and unfolding before His eyes.
Quite frankly, I had not really been aware of His presence because by the time He evidently started, I was well past the “conscious awareness” of the comings and goings of the various Participants and Attendants. Throughout the course of the next day, we were inundated with a multitude of individuals wishing to share the expressions of their experience of our Scene and we both considered ourselves to be well blessed and in deep gratitude for this most positive and illuminating feedback which, once again, fed our souls and reaffirmed the vision of our mission in the lifestyle we honorably pursue.
As we continued toward “my appointed destiny”, which I by then, had begun to call this serendipitous event, images, thoughts and questions raced through my mind. Feelings of doom, death and fiery destruction rose unbidden from my subconscious. How was I supposed to prepare for something I barely knew anything about? How was I supposed to respond? What would be required of me from this new Master? My body was alive and pulsating with a growing excitement and I felt as though I would faint dead away right there on the spot as my Daddy placed me into the enfolding arms of “Master Q”.
Having no idea what to expect and trusting my Daddy completely in His choice of who He allows to Top me, I permitted myself the infinite pleasure of literally falling into and under the spell of ‘Q’, whose deep brown eyes appeared like bottomless pits of dark carnality and unexpressed passion. His gentle sensitivity calmed me at once; however the felt influence of His arcane talent completely and utterly mystified me. In my own inner knowingness and conscious awareness, the realization came to me in a nanosecond that, never before had I beheld at first glance, this type of depth and compassion in a Top save fore that of my Daddy and my former Master.
In that realization, I near swooned in delight and relaxed into the flow of the preparations which began to take place. I was asked to remove all of my clothes, not that I had much on to start with, and to place my hair back, up and out of the way, which I did quite happily with the clips I already had in it from Daddy’s Whip Workshop.
Between them, they placed special fire retardant sheets of the massage table when my body was to lie, along with a pillow which was placed beneath my knees and chest. My sense of time evaporated as I, in my mind, presented my body on the sacrificial altar of Pele, the Goddess of Fire. Master Q proceeded very slowly at first, exploring my tolerance for heat and my autonomic responses to fire. I heard His exclamations of delight but in no wise can recite back a single statement which He made. At one particular point in time, I remember lying facedown upon my tummy and thinking, “Well, this is certainly different. I cannot see anything that is being done and I do not really have a sense of what is actually happening so what in the name of God am I supposed to be feeling while He is doing this to me?” From that thought and question, I quickly jumped to the conclusion that this was going to be dreadfully boring and felt, in that moment, that I could go to sleep during the whole process.
In truth, I did not experience the usual endorphin high which so often engulfs me during a Whip, Spanking, Needle or Rope Bondage Scene. The actual sensation of heat was very pleasurable and did not bother me much because of the lack of visual input to stimulate my brain into a fear response, so I just lay there in a kind of bemused and curious state.
In retrospect, even as I write this review, I now realize that my subconscious was responding on levels I was not even aware of and my body reacted accordingly by delivering it’s own peculiar mix of fight or flight hormones.
Through a warm, fuzzy haze, I heard Master Q tell me to roll over onto my back and as He kindled the flames upon my body, He commanded me to open my eyes. As I complied, I beheld a most glorious and evocative sight. A yellow tongue of liquid fire raced headlong from my thigh up to my knee! I squealed in enjoyment and, raising my left leg into the air with my toes pointed skyward, I begged Him to do it again. Laughing outrageously, He happily obliged. When Q began to play a dance of fire upon my feet, I thought I had died and gone to heaven, so deeply delicious and erotic were the sensations. It was in those moments that I began to go where only angels fear to tread. My body became alive with a motion that undulated with the movement of the fire.
Daddy told me after the Scene that Q was filled with joy and that it was obvious He also had entered an altered space. Together we were a symbiotic creation, moving in unison to the compelling nature of the power of fire. Daddy was so very fortunate to be able, not only to capture images of the extraordinary dance of fire on film, but He was invited by Q to actually participate, which He did with stunning competence and creative ability.
During the final stages of our Scene, Q placed the palm of my hand over His solar plexus and, upon placing a ball of fire in His own hand, placed it over mine. The effect was dramatic and deeply connective and by the time we finished, I was so aroused that I began begging for Daddy to drive His magical fingers deep into my Yoni and pleasure me with a G-Spot Massage. No one, not even I, knew what the results would be. Quite suddenly, an eruption from some hidden subterranean depth occurred, the likes of which surprised and pleasure both Q and all the people standing about watching (so I learned much later). Like an artesian well, Daddy provoked such a release of the Nectar of the Goddess that it flowed up, out and over my belly and fell cascading to the floor around His feet.
For Q, this was in His words, the hottest and most erotic and sensual Fire Scene which He had ever had the privilege to do. He had been inspired to do things which He had never done before because of the dynamics of the Scene and He also expressed deep gratitude at having been the witness to such a powerful female ejaculation, which to Him, was the icing on the cake.
I hold the belief that everything is perfect in my Universe and that I am doing exactly what I am supposed to be doing in the very moment I am doing it and this particular event was no different.
Although Fire Play is considered by many to be an extreme form of Edge Play containing elements of excitement and increased risk of danger, it was perfect for me to participate in and experience in that moment. I will always be deeply grateful to “Q”, a Master at Fire Play, for giving me the opportunity to taste His most talented expertise and for writing to me, a most beautifully written email, from which I am quoting a few sentences.
“Little One, our time together was the best experience I could hope for when I share my Fire Play. Your reactions inspired me. I still feel the thrill when I think about being with you. You and your Daddy gave me a wonderful gift that night when you gave yourself over to me. Your gift overflows to surrounding people and that is what first attracted me to your Whipping Scene. Your complete surrender and offering yourself to your Daddy is a beautiful living poem, flowing back and forth between you two. I was honored to become part of your gift as people came to watch us enjoy the flames together.”








I am just now beginning to settle back in from our Trip to Floating World and the East Coast. There are many stories to tell and feelings to express and it will take me a little time and several postings to reveal all of them.
The Floating World is about more than presenting and attending Workshops. It is also about meeting and forming new friends with a deep connection that continues to echo in my thoughts and heart throughout the days and nights since our departure.
The Event itself was huge, with about one thousand participants and one hundred and fifty Workshops being presented from 10:00 AM to Midnight, from Friday through Sunday night. My Friday, Intermediate/Advanced Whip Workshop was from 8:00 to 10:30 PM, the Sunday Spanking Workshop was 2:00 to 3:30 PM and the Beginning Whip Workshop was 10:00 PM to Midnight on Sunday. I am happy to say that all of them were well attended. What was very rewarding for me was to notice that many of the people from each class came to attend my next one because they enjoyed my teaching style and learned new and interesting things from what I was presenting.
Little One and I were treated like Royalty by Natasha and all the FW Staff. They printed reams of material for my Workshop Handouts only mentioning briefly that they were printing more for my Classes than for any other Presenter. I do like to have handouts that are almost self explanatory books that will clearly remind the Participants of what we covered in class because I want them to pay attention to the Workshop and not bother to take notes. Interestingly enough, on the Personal Evaluation Forms, many comments are made about the value of these Handouts.
One of the first things I noticed upon entering the FW Registration Area was a large poster encouraging people to buy raffle tickets for an hour of Private Instruction with Jay Wiseman or Jonn Ireland and the money raised went to the Ashbury Aids Support Group. The winner of my raffle went to “Ms M”, a Female Brooklyn Switch. She wanted to win so much that she bought twenty dollars worth of tickets and made the comment to Little One that it was the best investment she ever made for her continuing education in the art of the Singetail. I felt happy and grateful that she experienced tremendous progress during out session.
Many of the photos of the event and trip require a little touch up in Photoshop but here are a few to start off with. These are of Little One and myself taken in the FW Dungeon during our Friday Night Scene, and also during my Whip Workshop and Spanking Workshop by our friend, Fire Play Expert and Photographer "Q", of "Full-Exposure.com". (More about him later).
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Spanking Workshop

Whip Workshops

