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Brimstone Kink Event

Since the Brimstone Event, Little One and I have been enveloped in a whirlwind of activities and preparing for our trip down to Portland to Present both her Yoga Workshop and my “Spanking in the Dungeon Workshop”. During the three hour drive from Seattle to Portland, Little One and I jointly wrote this review of our mutual experiences.

Arriving at EWR and getting picked up by IndianJohn and Little One was indeed a welcome delight. We had been apart for a week while she flitted all over New York City, participating in various photo shoots with IndianJohn. He was kind and generous with his time, driving us to a local grocery store so that we could do a little food shopping for the Event before taking us on to the Hotel.

The Hotel allowed us to check in a little early and we happily discovered that we had been given a suite with a living room, wet bar, bedroom and of course a bathroom. My O.C.D. Little One of course, immediately began to unpack and put everything away, however I had not seen her for a week and felt it was time to spank, whip and fuck her, much to the delight of IndianJohn, whom Little One refers to as the 'Ultimate Shutterbug'. That man sincerely loves to take photographs and even took three Video Clips of parts of our spontaneous Scene together.

After I had thoroughly ravished my Little Girl, she thoroughly washed herself off everywhere from what she called all the “yuck” and we all went down to dinner at Harold’s Deli, the place next to the hotel, where one sandwich costs $17.00 but feeds a small army. IndianJohn was surprised at the sheer volume of food presented to us. This is also the place where a piece of cake is seven layers tall and nobody could possibly eat it all by themselves. After dinner, IndianJohn said his farewells and we headed off to bed for an early night.
After sleeping in for as long as possible, we finally got ourselves up and out of bed, then headed for the Lobby to get ourselves Registered and meet all the Organizers and many of the Attendees. Connecting up with both Amy and Boyd again, as well as with Dov, Dan and Shibari Warrior, after meeting them all at “The Floating World 2008”, was like participating in a Kink Family Reunion.

Later on in the afternoon, I taught “Introduction to Single Tails in the Dungeon”, the first of three of my workshops, to forty-five Participants and it was truly a blessing to see many of them continue on to take my other two workshops on the following day.

As Presenters, we were very grateful for the well stocked Presenters Lounge, which provided everything from fresh fruit to drinks and snacks of every description. This was also a place where Presenters could serendipitously run into one another and take a few moments to connect, which is often difficult to do at these jam packed events.

After my first class, Little One and I went back up to our room to meditate, order in Chinese Food and then change our clothes so that we could go down into the Dungeon and Play, which opened at 11:00 in the morning and did not close until 3:00 am the next morning. As I surveyed the area, I was looking for a Play Station with plenty of room surrounding it so that I could throw my Whips without hitting anything or anyone else.

All of the St. Andrew’s Crosses were set up very well for Flogging, however they did not have enough room for me to really swing my Whips. The Dungeon Monitors were very accommodating to me when I expressed an interest in utilizing a Bondage Suspension Support Rack which was custom made by SaltnPepperDom and which we had the pleasure of being the first people to use it as our Scene Space. They helped to shift it around so that we were sure to have plenty of clearance and, after I tied some of my Twisted Monk Rope over the main cross beam, I proceeded to set some overhand knots into it so that Little One could use them to hold onto. No matter how much my Little Girl swung and moved around, the Bondage Rack remained stable and firm.

I knew that I was going to put Little One through her paces so I had her do some of her Yoga Stretches on the floor and, while she did, I wrapped her feet and legs with my Bull Whip. She warmed up doing Yoga and I warmed up doing Wraps on her.

We proceeded to have a long, intense and well connected Scene, and the people who stood around watching us, faded into the background. The only people in our Universe were me and Little One, playing with pain, endorphins, submission and the ultimate power exchange.

The Event Photographer, SiRoberto, fell in love with our Scene and especially seemed taken with my Little One’s incredibly erotic and sensuous expressions and some of these images are available to view in my FetLife Photo Gallery.


Toward the end of the Scene, when everything was flowing just exactly right, I brought in my Bull Whip to strike her many times with that harder hitting whip. This happens to be one of my favorite Whips and leaves extraordinarily beautiful, long, red welted stripes, frequently leaking small drops of blood and which usually brings any Scene I do with her, to its ultimate end. She threw herself at my feet and began to cry out and beg for mercy, but I was not yet finished and grabbed her by her hair and dragged her back to the rope which hung invitingly from the beam. She then pulled herself up and submitted to whatever else I had in store for her, allowing me to satiate my darkest desires while I continued striking her until I was almost done.

At some point, I allowed her to fall to my feet, however I was still not complete and, picking up my Joe Wheeler Finger Whip, I firmly placed my boot onto her body to hold her firmly in place and I began to whip her breasts. When I sensed that both she and I had finally come to completion, I took my Celtic Designed Whipping Sheet and lovingly wrapped her up in it like a giant Burrito, allowing her to enter into a bliss-filled state of oblivion. Where she goes, I do not know, and I left her alone until I noticed movement and sensed that she was coming back into the present moment.

Picking her up, I removed her Rag Doll like form into an After Care Area where I could hold her close to me and cuddle her, so that I could bring her back into a more conscious state of awareness.

I then took her back to our room and allowed my baser instincts to take over. One of my deepest pleasures of being a Whip Top, is to feel her welts as I caress her heated body and, it is then that a kind of primal urge begins to surface from within and all I want to do in those moments is to spank her ass, to further raise up her welts as I fuck her from behind. Her submission and openness to me is absolute in those moments and I feel as if my lust and my desire can finally fulfill itself.

The next day began with me attending Little One’s Yoga Class first thing in the morning, which once again gave me a wonderful opportunity to evaluate my own lack of flexibility, balance and endurance. My Little Girl is an excellent and supportive teacher because she understands her student’s own personal issues and helps to guide them through their particular limitations in order to help them achieve a measure of success. If people were to follow her advice and her own personal example, they would probably be happier, healthier and have a higher level of fitness and well being.

Leaving the Yoga Class, we hurried on up to our room because we barely had time to change and get ready for, “Whip Like a Pro in the Dungeon, which was my next Whip Workshop with thirty-seven people participating. Because many people had already attended my previous Class from the night before, they were able to learn the new techniques I was teaching very quickly and were better equipped to progress into new levels of whipping skills.

After lunch, Contesaluv had invited Little One to participate in a Panel Discussion on “Meeting People in the Scene”, with six other Presenters and Participants. For her it was a most memorable and enjoyable experience. She made many new friends and further deepened her relationship with others.

While she did that, I attended a Water Bondage Demonstration presented by Lew Rubens with “_gg_” as his assistant, who used Amychara and “_ten_” as his demo bottoms. To see “_ten_” bent over backwards, with her wrists tied to her ankles and barely being able to catch small breaths of air, while her nipples were tightly tied to small balloons which provided some measure of flotation, was very erotic and an exciting and unique type of bondage uniquely coupled with the use of breath play.

Making the journey once again up to our room, Little One and I did our afternoon meditation and when we came back down to the Lobby, we ran into Dov just as the elevator doors opened. Ever since Little One met Dov at “The Floating World 2008” and he photographed our Scene over at the Black Phoenix in Philadelphia, she has been envisioning a time when she would feel the touch of his ropes and his energy. With my permission, she quietly went over to him and asked him if he would consider doing a rope Suspension with her. Dov agreed and, going back to his room to get his bag of ropes, met us in the Dungeon shortly after.

He and Little One were in perfect sync and looked so beautiful together as they executed their rope dance. I went in search of Robert, the Event Photographer, because I knew very well that he would love to photograph the Scene as it unfolded. As it turned out, he took many photographs of my Little Girl and Dov in total bliss, some images of which can be seen in my FetLife Gallery.

Sometimes Little One is like the ‘Ever Ready Bunny’ and, once she had recovered from her Scene with Dov, I had a big strong guy carry her over to where Boyd-B and Amy were waiting to play with her with “sounds”. Two years ago, ever since she had seen Boyd doing this at The Floating World, with axelrod57’s partner cricket57, she had wanted to experience this process. Her description of this form of play was that it was like having “twenty minutes of continual G-Spot stimulation” which elicited a continual and uninterrupted twenty minute orgasm.

Happy and exhausted, Little One returned to our room for a little down time while I attended Lew Ruben’s “Bondage for Sex Workshop” where I learned ways to spontaneously and quickly tie up a bottom in sexually accessible positions. His workshop was additionally erotic because of his two very hot bondage models, “_gg_” and “Narcissa”aka Ricecreamdream.

I went back to the room to collect all my teaching materials and, of course my Little One, in time to go back down and teach my “Double Handed Whip Workshop”, which was a great success and, since the majority of the participants had already attended my other workshops, they had a terrific foundation for this particular class. The energy was high and without a doubt, this class in my opinion was a most extraordinary class because the participants learned the skills I was teaching, very quickly. Later, upon reflection, I think it was because I introduced a new teaching element to help them develop “body memory” so that they could feel the actual techniques before they even got the whips in their hands.

After Class, my Little Girl went to bed and crashed while I went down to the Dungeon to hunt for fresh prey! Fortunately, I found Little Jo floating around, and with the permission of her partner, SaltnPepper Dom, I carried out a delicious Whip Scene with this little ‘hottie’.

The day had been filled with much activity and I felt full and satisfied from my Teaching Experiences. Basking in the afterglow of both my Scene Energy and the day’s events, I joined my Little One in bed, who was fast asleep.

The next morning, Little One got up to teach her last Yoga Class at Brimstone, to the dedicated early risers and Yoga aficionados. Bubbling over with enthusiasm, she expressed to me how very blessed she felt to have had the privilege to share her knowledge and teaching skills with students who really wanted to experience another level of learning this ancient discipline of Yoga, which is the unification of the Body and Mind.

Since it was our day to fly back home, for the next few hours we packed up and we were then escorted to EWR by our friend, Piggy, who is known as “piemaster” on FetLife. He is a truly gentle spirit with a most remarkable sense of humor and we promised to make for him a very special photo, which he specifically requested because of his very kinky and perverted fetish, and which you can view in my Gallery.

The Event on the whole, was well planned, well organized and wonderfully executed. For their first Event, the Organizers, who have had years and years of experience in this realm, deserve huge applause and adulation because, we as Presenters never saw one glitch or hiccup during the entire time of our stay.

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SAGACITY BIRTHDAY BASH KINK EVENT


I am thrilled to be teaching two workshops at the Sagacity Birthday Bash in Victoria BC Canada November 6-7-8 2009, “ Whip Like A Pro In The Dungeon “and “ Spanking In The Dungeon”. Please join me there. I taught workshops at the Birthday Bash previously and loved the energy and friendliness of Ladyfish and all the people there. Please check out their web site Sagacity Birthday Bash. You can still attend the event, if you hurry.

Ladyfish says: Sagacity enters into its 10th year of socializing and sharing with gatherings, workshops, and play parties. Sagacity is the largest group of kinksters on Vancouver Island, and looks forward to presenting a weekend extravaganza of fun and learning.

Join us on November 6th, 7th and 8th at Victoria's Harbor Towers Hotel & Suites. We offer workshops by fabulous presenters, erotic art and presentations, exciting and innovative vendors, and a play party you'll have trouble keeping a secret! Sagacity is extremely pleased to have the Randy Tucker Band whipping out tunes to make you want to hit the dance floor!

This is the premiere fetish event in Victoria and we hope you will plan to join us and spend the entire weekend!

Beat Me In Saint Louis



An overall spirit of inclusion and welcome pervades the atmosphere at BMSL.  All the volunteers were positive, friendly and happy to help make everything just right.  Ms. Regina, the Presenter Coordinator for BMSL, picked up Little One and me from the airport, and made us feel like we were long lost relatives from across the country flying into town.  Everything possible was done to make our experience at BMSL both enjoyable and effortless for us and that attitude extended toward the attendees as well as the Presenters.  Roxy, one of the Presenter Assistants, who is also Ms. Regina’s wife, was one of those solid, dependable individuals who worked tirelessly behind the scene to keep everything running smoothly and would immediately take care of any glitches that might arise.

There was a special “Meet and Greet” for Presenters and the Volunteers who were working the event and were therefore unable to attend the Workshops, and there were other more private ones so that the Presenters could get to know one another in a more social setting.  There were desert buffets and late night prepared snacks for all Attendees and the Hotel had apparently made the humorous observation to the Event Chair, J-Sin, “Wow!  This group sure does eat a lot”.  

A month or so before the Event, Little One and I had become friends with a Poly Family on FetLife before arriving in St. Louis and in fact, the reason the three of them actually came to the Event was because we were going to be there Presenting.  Coldblade, Lenaloves and hellzangel were eagerly waiting to meet us after communicating back and forth via Fetlife.  Little One and hellzangel, while on line, had cooked up a Whip Scene suggestion for me and hellz and, quite naturally, I agreed to the Scene.


Hellz was what I call a ‘whip virgin’ that I planned to deflower on Friday evening. I didn’t think it could be possible but she was smaller than Little One and, like her, is a firecracker.  She was a bit nervous as we began our Scene; however she soon warmed up and arched her body forward as I begin to caress the front of her tight little body with my hands and whips.  She fell into it very well. After a time, I turned her around and as I started whipping her back and hot little ass, she began rising up on her toes. In retrospect, I think that I was pushing her a little too hard; however I must admit that I like to have my whip bottom struggle with the experience a little bit…(Well actually sometimes quite a lot!)

Later on in the evening at the BMSL Dungeon, I did a Scene with Little One using the outside of the BMSL Jail, which is a beautiful cage she used as a climbing rack for her reference point as I begin to whip her. The Scene was a very dynamic, hotly intense and an expressive experience. Throughout the next two days, various people would frequently stop us in the hallways and rooms to tell us that the emotion and connection they witnessed between the two of us, was communicated to them directly during our Scene.  Please click on this FetLife Link to read more about our Scene and how other people responded to it.


My Workshops were well received and I had the added welcome surprise of my mentor and friend, Roger Stevens show up unexpectedly in both of them.  Roger and Marcy, his submissive of many years, live nearby and were attending BMSL.  Later on in my advanced Whip Workshop, I invited Roger to ring the silver bells hanging from Little One’s labia rings.  He totally intimidated her by cracking his Signal Whip loudly about one half inch away from her bells, frequently ringing them in the process.  At my invitation, Roger and Marcy came back to our room to talk, take Fotos and Roger spontaneously began to scene with my Little Girl.  You can read more about her experience in her post.

Another highlight of BMSL was a Scene I did with Rita Seagrave, a lively, beautiful and sensuous redhead who presented several workshops at BMSL  She and I felt a “ping” when we first saw each other Thursday evening and by Saturday I asked her to play that evening at the Saturday Dungeon Party.  Prior to our play she gave Little One and me a HOT Lap Dance which set the mood nicely.  She was everything and more than I could have expected or hoped for in our Scene. She is delicious and hot.

Please do take the opportunity to attend any of the extremely well coordinated, enjoyable and exciting Events put on by these Saint Louis Kinksters. Upcoming in November 20-22, is “Spanksgiving 09”
I encourage everyone to attend one of their events and experience some of what Little One and I had the great joy to encounter at BMSL.

Beat Me In Saint Louis

Beat Me in Saint Louis - March 27, 28 and 29, 2009


I am very pleased to be presenting three workshops at BMSL.  They include an Intermediate Whip Workshop” an “Advanced Whip Workshop”  and a “Hands on Practice Workshop”.

“The Hands On Practice Workshop” is a special event to allow all the participants in the Whip Workshops to have extra time to practice in an in-depth way with plenty of time for coaching. People can also borrow my whips to get a feel of different makers’ style of whips to help them decide what type of whip to buy.

For several years I have heard about “Beat Me In Saint Louis” which is a well known Premier Kink event in the USA.  I am honored that they are bringing both Little One and me to Saint Louis for this event.  If you have been reading my Blog, seeing me at Kink Events or following Little One or me on FetLife, be sure to introduce yourself and say “Hello”.

Regester now and yes, “Meet me in Saint Louis!!”

Vancouver B.C. Canada Whip Workshop

Whips, Wraps, Bondage

There are times when I will whip my play partners while they are in Rope Bondage and whipping a person in this particular “consensual predicament” presents some very unique challenges.  First off, they are usually unable to process the pain from a whip strike as easily as they can while they are unbound and most bottoms like to move at least a little, so that they can convert the pain into a more tolerable experience.  Secondly, in some ties, the placement of the ropes will block strikes to some parts of their body, therefore I am limited to clear areas where the rope is not covering their skin so that I can hit them with the whip.

An exception to these Whip/Rope limitations is to use a long Bullwhip to do wraps on the bound person.  Over the past several months, I have been wrapping and then spinning Little One while she is suspended and she has taken to suspension like a duck to water.  The first time I had ever done this was quite a spontaneous event and happened while we were playing at the Center in Seattle.  For me, this was a very hot and compelling Scene which left both of us very high and, soon after, several people approached me to express how much they really liked and enjoyed the dynamics of our Scene.

I mentioned to Maria Shadoes what I was doing and she invited Little One and me to their beautiful country home so that she could do some Scenes where she could suspend Little One and have me wrap her with the long Bullwhip.  We shot video and still images of those Scenes and Maria has, or will soon have, it available on her site to download.

Since Camp Paradise, Michael Sol has suspended my Little One numerous times and, while he was just here in Seattle over this past weekend, he invited us out to Jakesters stunning, owner built house which is in a fantastic location on a huge bluff overlooking a valley and raw wilderness.  Jake has built a large tripod on his front lawn so that he can suspend people in front of this magnificent vista and he has also installed into the ceiling of his living room a hook, cable and winch for this specific purpose during inclement weather .  Since I had finally returned the long Bullwhip which Todd had so generously loaned to me for the last few months, I was able to use Jake’s perfectly broken in “Royce a.k.a. “Rooster” 6’ Bullwhip” to use on Little One while she was suspended outside under the tripod, and  I fell in love with that Whip!  (If anybody knows anyone who has one of these whips from Royce that they are willing to let go of, please let me know.  I would be most grateful.)

The day we did this Scene was Sunday, November 23rd and it was clear and very cold outside with the wind blowing at least 15 MPH.  In the following photos, you will notice Michael has a coat on and that I am bundled up with a leather shirt and denim jacket while my Little One was dressed in a white lace body stocking and freezing her ass off.  In some of the first photos we took, you will see her howling like a Wolf to process the cold, however when Sol finally got her off the ground into a full suspension, she did not seem to feel or even notice the cold and began to play, turn and twist in the ropes while I cracked the smooth handling, well broken in whip and wrapped and spun her in the crisp winter air.

Little One is becoming quite the Rope Slut Model and it is easy to see why.  She is fit, athletic, beautiful and very acrobatic when suspended and I do not wish to ever tie her hands because she literally takes wing and flies.

Fotos at Maria's






Fotos at Jakesters, Bondage by Michael
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Sagacity Kink Events

The Sagacity Kink Events in Victoria, B.C., Canada, are ‘must attend events’ for anyone in the Alternative Lifestyle.  If you are able to fit any of them into your schedule, please consider doing so.  Their website is http://sagacitygroup.net/main and all of the events are unique and fun.  They have a Beach Party, a Saint Paddle’s Day P.J. Party, a Domlander Fetish Competition Play Party and more.

I have just returned from their Birthday Bash where I taught my Advanced Whip Workshop and Spanking Workshop.  The Birthday Bash is their premier event and about 200 people were in attendance.

The Birthday Bash is a classy event which was comprised of a Friday Evening Black Tie Optional Meet and Greet with cocktails available, an Erotic Art Show and a dance with a terrific live band.   Saturday was filled with Workshops on a wide variety of subjects, a very nice lunch for all in attendance and an evening Play Party with plenty of room around the play equipment for whips, floggers and flying fists.

My Workshops went really well. Lena attended the event with me and was my Spanking and Whip Model for my Workshops.  Guys (and many women) are always happy with Little One and Lena as my models.  This time forty percent of them mentioned on the Workshop Evaluations that the model was what they liked best about the Workshop....Hmmmm… I think that no matter how much I sharpened up the Workshops this weekend I would have still gotten that same response.

Sunday was a time to meet for breakfast, have conversations with new and old friends, and then board the Port Angeles Ferry for a nice boat ride back to the States.
 
As an addendum, here is a tip for crossing the border back into the U. S. A.
 
When the Customs and Immigration Officer sternly asked how long we had been in Victoria and what we did there, my response was that we had attended a weekend BDSM event in Victoria.  He looked confused, mouthed the initials BDSM and was about to ask what that meant when I added that it was an S & M Event.  He turned bright red, mumbled something and waved us on through.

Photography is not usually allowed at Kink events, however I have included some fotos of Lena and me playing at other times. Fotos were taken at the CSPC Photo Party by Jim Duvall and Kilawama.













Sagacity's Birthday Bash

I am thrilled to be teaching two workshops at the Sagacity Birthday Bash in Victoria BC Canada November 7-8 2008, an Intermediate/Advanced Whip Workshop and a Spanking Workshop. I taught a workshop at the Birthday Bash two years ago and loved the energy and friendliness of Ladyfish and all the people there. Please check out their web site Sagacity Birthday Bash. If you are lucky perhaps you can still attend the event.

Ladyfish says:
Sagacity enters into its 9th year of socialising and sharing with gatherings, workshops, and play parties. Sagacity is the largest group of kinksters on Vancouver Island, and looks forward to presenting a weekend extravaganza of fun and learning.

Join us on November 7th and 8th at Victoria's Harbour Towers Hotel & Suites as we offer up workshops by fabulous presenters, erotic art and presentations, exciting and innovative vendors, and a play party you'll have trouble keeping a secret! Sagacity is extremely pleased to have the Randy Tucker Band whipping out tunes to make you want to hit the dance floor!

This the premiere fetish event in Victoria and we hope you will plan to join us and spend the entire weekend!

Photos of a Scene

These outstanding Photos were taken by Dov@washi-nawashi.com ( search on Fetlife DOV) of a scene with Little One and myself at Black Phoenix in Philadelphia, PA just after The Floating World event.






























Kink Events and New Friends

The Kink Events that I have attended have been educational, interesting and just plain fun, yet the deepest pleasure of these events is in meeting new people, old friends and developing close lasting connections through talking, playing and sharing deep experiences.  I make an effort to be as open as possible to new people, ideas and experiences while being ready to stop and talk while wandering around the grounds of the Event.

At The Floating World, we were fortunate enough to share a room with Lolita Wolf and her date. The friendship that developed through shared experiences, talking and play was quite memorable and will be long lasting.

Lolita & Lil'One Messin' Round / Lolita's Date Posing as Security,Cavity Searches Lil'One   

  One of the more unusual shared experiences was the Monday morning Hotel Fire Alarm going off at 6:00 AM after just going to bed at about 3:00 AM.  We barely heard the alarm (they really do need to make the alarm louder in this Hotel) and groggily got up, left everything in the room, walked down the stairs and into the parking lot. The sun was just coming up and the parking lot was filled with sleepy disgruntled Kinksters, Fire Trucks and very fit looking Firefighters.

 
 False Alarm                                   Lil'One flirting with a fireman

Another person we met is Shibari Warrior, who owns a beautiful Dungeon in Philadelphia, PA. (Well at least he did until he was sabotaged and got shut down a mere week after the Post TFW Party however He has informed us that He will be opening another Black Phoenix Dungeon very soon.)  He invited Little One and me to come over to Philly on Tuesday, after TFW and play in the space so we took the train from New York City toward Philadelphia, which was an hour's journey through interisting small towns and beautiful scenery.

Shibari Warrior met us at the train station and we continued on our journey in his car to the Black Phoenix Dungeon, which He opened up especially for us and enlisted the services of Dov, a terrific Photographer and Bondage Expert to photograph our Scene.  We also met their friend Zelda, now our friend too, a beautiful blond Kinkster who  allowed me to whip her after my Scene with Little One.  She loves whips and is an erotic, sensually delightful creature to play with, it was a very hot scene.  Because our play ended so late and the trip back to NYC would take several hours, Zelda invited all of us to stay overnight in her nice country home in New Jersey.

Black Phoenix
  
The Lounge                                   Main area

Scene Space                                 Ready for Whips




It is a pleasure to have a connected feeling with dear Kink friends across the country and in the Northwest too.  I would like to invite all of you, that whenever you go to a Kink Event, to stay open and receptive to new experiences, new friends and realize that we are all connected one to another in this, our chosen Lifestyle.