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SAGACITY BIRTHDAY BASH KINK EVENT

2009-10-26T19:58:00Z

I am thrilled to be teaching two workshops at the Sagacity Birthday Bash in Victoria BC Canada November 6-7-8 2009, “ Whip Like A Pro In The Dungeon “and “ Spanking In The Dungeon”. Please join me there. I taught workshops at the Birthday Bash previously and loved the energy and friendliness of Ladyfish and all the people there. Please check out their web site Sagacity Birthday Bash. You can still attend the event, if you hurry.

Ladyfish says: Sagacity enters into its 10th year of socializing and sharing with gatherings, workshops, and play parties. Sagacity is the largest group of kinksters on Vancouver Island, and looks forward to presenting a weekend extravaganza of fun and learning.

Join us on November 6th, 7th and 8th at Victoria's Harbor Towers Hotel & Suites. We offer workshops by fabulous presenters, erotic art and presentations, exciting and innovative vendors, and a play party you'll have trouble keeping a secret! Sagacity is extremely pleased to have the Randy Tucker Band whipping out tunes to make you want to hit the dance floor!

This is the premiere fetish event in Victoria and we hope you will plan to join us and spend the entire weekend!

Beat Me In Saint Louis

2009-04-07T04:11:00Z

An overall spirit of inclusion and welcome pervades the atmosphere at BMSL. All the volunteers were positive, friendly and happy to help make everything just right. Ms. Regina, the Presenter Coordinator for BMSL, picked up Little One and me from the airport, and made us feel like we were long lost relatives from across the country flying into town. Everything possible was done to make our experience at BMSL both enjoyable and effortless for us and that attitude extended toward the attendees as well as the Presenters. Roxy, one of the Presenter Assistants, who is also Ms. Regina’s wife, was one of those solid, dependable individuals who worked tirelessly behind the scene to keep everything running smoothly and would immediately take care of any glitches that might arise.

There was a special “Meet and Greet” for Presenters and the Volunteers who were working the event and were therefore unable to attend the Workshops, and there were other more private ones so that the Presenters could get to know one another in a more social setting. There were desert buffets and late night prepared snacks for all Attendees and the Hotel had apparently made the humorous observation to the Event Chair, J-Sin, “Wow! This group sure does eat a lot”.

A month or so before the Event, Little One and I had become friends with a Poly Family on FetLife before arriving in St. Louis and in fact, the reason the three of them actually came to the Event was because we were going to be there Presenting. Coldblade, Lenaloves and hellzangel were eagerly waiting to meet us after communicating back and forth via Fetlife. Little One and hellzangel, while on line, had cooked up a Whip Scene suggestion for me and hellz and, quite naturally, I agreed to the Scene.

Hellz was what I call a ‘whip virgin’ that I planned to deflower on Friday evening. I didn’t think it could be possible but she was smaller than Little One and, like her, is a firecracker. She was a bit nervous as we began our Scene; however she soon warmed up and arched her body forward as I begin to caress the front of her tight little body with my hands and whips. She fell into it very well. After a time, I turned her around and as I started whipping her back and hot little ass, she began rising up on her toes. In retrospect, I think that I was pushing her a little too hard; however I must admit that I like to have my whip bottom struggle with the experience a little bit…(Well actually sometimes quite a lot!)

Later on in the evening at the BMSL Dungeon, I did a Scene with Little One using the outside of the BMSL Jail, which is a beautiful cage she used as a climbing rack for her reference point as I begin to whip her. The Scene was a very dynamic, hotly intense and an expressive experience. Throughout the next two days, various people would frequently stop us in the hallways and rooms to tell us that the emotion and connection they witnessed between the two of us, was communicated to them directly during our Scene. Please click on this FetLife Link to read more about our Scene and how other people responded to it.

My Workshops were well received and I had the added welcome surprise of my mentor and friend, Roger Stevens show up unexpectedly in both of them. Roger and Marcy, his submissive of many years, live nearby and were attending BMSL. Later on in my advanced Whip Workshop, I invited Roger to ring the silver bells hanging from Little One’s labia rings. He totally intimidated her by cracking his Signal Whip loudly about one half inch away from her bells, frequently ringing them in the process. At my invitation, Roger and Marcy came back to our room to talk, take Fotos and Roger spontaneously began to scene with my Little Girl. You can read more about her experience in her post.

Another highlight of BMSL was a Scene I did with Rita Seagrave, a lively, beautiful and sensuous redhead who presented several workshops at BMSL She and I felt a “ping” when we first saw each other Thursday evening and by Saturday I asked her to play that evening at the Saturday Dungeon Party. Prior to our play she gave Little One and me a HOT Lap Dance which set the mood nicely. She was everything and more than I could have expected or hoped for in our Scene. She is delicious and hot.

Please do take the opportunity to attend any of the extremely well coordinated, enjoyable and exciting Events put on by these Saint Louis Kinksters. Upcoming in November 20-22, is “Spanksgiving 09” I encourage everyone to attend one of their events and experience some of what Little One and I had the great joy to encounter at BMSL.

Beat Me In Saint Louis

2009-01-30T04:53:00Z

Beat Me in Saint Louis - March 27, 28 and 29, 2009

I am very pleased to be presenting three workshops at BMSL. They include an “Intermediate Whip Workshop” an “Advanced Whip Workshop” and a “Hands on Practice Workshop”.

“The Hands On Practice Workshop” is a special event to allow all the participants in the Whip Workshops to have extra time to practice in an in-depth way with plenty of time for coaching. People can also borrow my whips to get a feel of different makers’ style of whips to help them decide what type of whip to buy.

For several years I have heard about “Beat Me In Saint Louis” which is a well known Premier Kink event in the USA. I am honored that they are bringing both Little One and me to Saint Louis for this event. If you have been reading my Blog, seeing me at Kink Events or following Little One or me on FetLife, be sure to introduce yourself and say “Hello”.

Regester now and yes, “Meet me in Saint Louis!!”

Vancouver B.C. Canada Whip Workshop

2008-12-11T16:19:00Z

Whips, Wraps, Bondage

2008-12-01T04:46:00Z

There are times when I will whip my play partners while they are in Rope Bondage and whipping a person in this particular “consensual predicament” presents some very unique challenges. First off, they are usually unable to process the pain from a whip strike as easily as they can while they are unbound and most bottoms like to move at least a little, so that they can convert the pain into a more tolerable experience. Secondly, in some ties, the placement of the ropes will block strikes to some parts of their body, therefore I am limited to clear areas where the rope is not covering their skin so that I can hit them with the whip.

An exception to these Whip/Rope limitations is to use a long Bullwhip to do wraps on the bound person. Over the past several months, I have been wrapping and then spinning Little One while she is suspended and she has taken to suspension like a duck to water. The first time I had ever done this was quite a spontaneous event and happened while we were playing at the Center in Seattle. For me, this was a very hot and compelling Scene which left both of us very high and, soon after, several people approached me to express how much they really liked and enjoyed the dynamics of our Scene.

I mentioned to Maria Shadoes what I was doing and she invited Little One and me to their beautiful country home so that she could do some Scenes where she could suspend Little One and have me wrap her with the long Bullwhip. We shot video and still images of those Scenes and Maria has, or will soon have, it available on her site to download.

Since Camp Paradise, Michael Sol has suspended my Little One numerous times and, while he was just here in Seattle over this past weekend, he invited us out to Jakesters stunning, owner built house which is in a fantastic location on a huge bluff overlooking a valley and raw wilderness. Jake has built a large tripod on his front lawn so that he can suspend people in front of this magnificent vista and he has also installed into the ceiling of his living room a hook, cable and winch for this specific purpose during inclement weather . Since I had finally returned the long Bullwhip which Todd had so generously loaned to me for the last few months, I was able to use Jake’s perfectly broken in “Royce a.k.a. “Rooster” 6’ Bullwhip” to use on Little One while she was suspended outside under the tripod, and I fell in love with that Whip! (If anybody knows anyone who has one of these whips from Royce that they are willing to let go of, please let me know. I would be most grateful.)

The day we did this Scene was Sunday, November 23rd and it was clear and very cold outside with the wind blowing at least 15 MPH. In the following photos, you will notice Michael has a coat on and that I am bundled up with a leather shirt and denim jacket while my Little One was dressed in a white lace body stocking and freezing her ass off. In some of the first photos we took, you will see her howling like a Wolf to process the cold, however when Sol finally got her off the ground into a full suspension, she did not seem to feel or even notice the cold and began to play, turn and twist in the ropes while I cracked the smooth handling, well broken in whip and wrapped and spun her in the crisp winter air.

Little One is becoming quite the Rope Slut Model and it is easy to see why. She is fit, athletic, beautiful and very acrobatic when suspended and I do not wish to ever tie her hands because she literally takes wing and flies.

Fotos at Maria's

Fotos at Jakesters, Bondage by Michael

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Sagacity Kink Events

2008-11-11T04:14:26Z

The Sagacity Kink Events in Victoria, B.C., Canada, are ‘must attend events’ for anyone in the Alternative Lifestyle. If you are able to fit any of them into your schedule, please consider doing so. Their website is http://sagacitygroup.net/main and all of the events are unique and fun. They have a Beach Party, a Saint Paddle’s Day P.J. Party, a Domlander Fetish Competition Play Party and more.

I have just returned from their Birthday Bash where I taught my Advanced Whip Workshop and Spanking Workshop. The Birthday Bash is their premier event and about 200 people were in attendance.

The Birthday Bash is a classy event which was comprised of a Friday Evening Black Tie Optional Meet and Greet with cocktails available, an Erotic Art Show and a dance with a terrific live band. Saturday was filled with Workshops on a wide variety of subjects, a very nice lunch for all in attendance and an evening Play Party with plenty of room around the play equipment for whips, floggers and flying fists.

My Workshops went really well. Lena attended the event with me and was my Spanking and Whip Model for my Workshops. Guys (and many women) are always happy with Little One and Lena as my models. This time forty percent of them mentioned on the Workshop Evaluations that the model was what they liked best about the Workshop....Hmmmm… I think that no matter how much I sharpened up the Workshops this weekend I would have still gotten that same response.

Sunday was a time to meet for breakfast, have conversations with new and old friends, and then board the Port Angeles Ferry for a nice boat ride back to the States.

As an addendum, here is a tip for crossing the border back into the U. S. A.

When the Customs and Immigration Officer sternly asked how long we had been in Victoria and what we did there, my response was that we had attended a weekend BDSM event in Victoria. He looked confused, mouthed the initials BDSM and was about to ask what that meant when I added that it was an S & M Event. He turned bright red, mumbled something and waved us on through.

Photography is not usually allowed at Kink events, however I have included some fotos of Lena and me playing at other times. Fotos were taken at the CSPC Photo Party by Jim Duvall and Kilawama.

Sagacity's Birthday Bash

2008-10-29T02:08:00Z

I am thrilled to be teaching two workshops at the Sagacity Birthday Bash in Victoria BC Canada November 7-8 2008, an Intermediate/Advanced Whip Workshop and a Spanking Workshop. I taught a workshop at the Birthday Bash two years ago and loved the energy and friendliness of Ladyfish and all the people there. Please check out their web site Sagacity Birthday Bash. If you are lucky perhaps you can still attend the event.

Ladyfish says:
Sagacity enters into its 9th year of socialising and sharing with gatherings, workshops, and play parties. Sagacity is the largest group of kinksters on Vancouver Island, and looks forward to presenting a weekend extravaganza of fun and learning.

Join us on November 7th and 8th at Victoria's Harbour Towers Hotel & Suites as we offer up workshops by fabulous presenters, erotic art and presentations, exciting and innovative vendors, and a play party you'll have trouble keeping a secret! Sagacity is extremely pleased to have the Randy Tucker Band whipping out tunes to make you want to hit the dance floor!

This the premiere fetish event in Victoria and we hope you will plan to join us and spend the entire weekend!

Photos of a Scene

2008-10-12T03:36:10Z

These outstanding Photos were taken by Dov@washi-nawashi.com ( search on Fetlife DOV) of a scene with Little One and myself at Black Phoenix in Philadelphia, PA just after The Floating World event.

Kink Events and New Friends

2008-09-17T03:25:00Z

The Kink Events that I have attended have been educational, interesting and just plain fun, yet the deepest pleasure of these events is in meeting new people, old friends and developing close lasting connections through talking, playing and sharing deep experiences. I make an effort to be as open as possible to new people, ideas and experiences while being ready to stop and talk while wandering around the grounds of the Event.

At The Floating World, we were fortunate enough to share a room with Lolita Wolf and her date. The friendship that developed through shared experiences, talking and play was quite memorable and will be long lasting.

Lolita & Lil'One Messin' Round / Lolita's Date Posing as Security,Cavity Searches Lil'One

One of the more unusual shared experiences was the Monday morning Hotel Fire Alarm going off at 6:00 AM after just going to bed at about 3:00 AM. We barely heard the alarm (they really do need to make the alarm louder in this Hotel) and groggily got up, left everything in the room, walked down the stairs and into the parking lot. The sun was just coming up and the parking lot was filled with sleepy disgruntled Kinksters, Fire Trucks and very fit looking Firefighters.

False Alarm                                   Lil'One flirting with a fireman

Another person we met is Shibari Warrior, who owns a beautiful Dungeon in Philadelphia, PA. (Well at least he did until he was sabotaged and got shut down a mere week after the Post TFW Party however He has informed us that He will be opening another Black Phoenix Dungeon very soon.) He invited Little One and me to come over to Philly on Tuesday, after TFW and play in the space so we took the train from New York City toward Philadelphia, which was an hour's journey through interisting small towns and beautiful scenery.

Shibari Warrior met us at the train station and we continued on our journey in his car to the Black Phoenix Dungeon, which He opened up especially for us and enlisted the services of Dov, a terrific Photographer and Bondage Expert to photograph our Scene. We also met their friend Zelda, now our friend too, a beautiful blond Kinkster who allowed me to whip her after my Scene with Little One. She loves whips and is an erotic, sensually delightful creature to play with, it was a very hot scene. Because our play ended so late and the trip back to NYC would take several hours, Zelda invited all of us to stay overnight in her nice country home in New Jersey.

Black Phoenix

The Lounge                                   Main area

Scene Space                                 Ready for Whips

It is a pleasure to have a connected feeling with dear Kink friends across the country and in the Northwest too. I would like to invite all of you, that whenever you go to a Kink Event, to stay open and receptive to new experiences, new friends and realize that we are all connected one to another in this, our chosen Lifestyle.

First Fire Experience

2008-09-04T23:28:00Z

My Fire Experience

Here it was, Sunday night and the final day of The Floating World Event in New Jersey. Daddy and I were preparing for his Whip Workshop, the last of three Presentations He was giving when He came over, pulled me in close to Him and casually asked me how I felt about “Fire Play”.

My instant response was, “Oh Daddy! You have known that ever since we saw that Fire Scene done by Ellwod at the 2006 Sagacity Birthday Bash in Victoria, I have been exceedingly curious about it! Why do You ask?”

He said, rather blandly, “Oh, just because I was thinking of taking a Class on it.” He then walked off and left me with the business of preparing Handouts for the Participants.

We were pleasantly surprised by how well this particular Class was attended, especially since it was the very last Class scheduled, being held from 10:30 PM until Midnight. We had the usual folks who were reluctant to leave, those who had more personal questions, those who wanted to seek further information and those who wanted a deeper, more intimate connection with the two of us, so by the time we cleared out, it was nearly half past Midnight.

“Daddy,” I asked as we gathered up our materials and exited the Class Room, “are we going to do a Scene tonight,” and He, being ever so succinct, turned to me and said, “Yes, Little One. ‘Q’ the Event Photographer is going to do a Fire Scene with you.”

Speechless, I gaped at Him in open mouthed wonder as I felt a deep, driving need surface like a Phoenix from the ashes. A need so primal and real that I have found myself throughout my life participating in high risk sports and adventures just to see it met and fulfilled. This was the adrenalin rush of being held on the ‘sweet edge of terror’, something akin to diving with and feeding sharks, which I have enjoyed immensely. The edge that is so far out there that it somehow merges with Universal Consciousness and I become ‘All That Is’.

Fear and excitement, which are basically the same experience in the body, bubbled furiously within me as we walked to the Fire Play Space. This was like a dream come true and I began asking Daddy a thousand questions at once, not one of which I remember, nor His answers.

He said, “Q was absolutely hot for you, Little One, and He asked me if He could do a Fire Scene with you. “Q” tells me that he has been learning about Fire since Boy Scouts and has using this element for decades with some of his close-up magic tricks, however it has only been during the last two years that he started using Fire in his Play Scenes.”

Daddy further found out that “Q” had learned this type of Fire Play primarily from Pyro Sadist, of Needle Play and Helen Fluterby, Member of TES who lives in NJ. He has attended many Workshops and had practiced on himself for weeks before he practiced on others. From the very first time he shared this with another person, he felt an immediate connection and response and was hooked! Whenever he can, he attends various Workshops to learn more about Fire Play and has even begun to develop some of his own techniques.

“Little One,” Daddy said, “I would never let Him near you if I did not feel that He could be trusted,” and I found myself even more excited than ever about the prospect of playing with a “Magician of Fire Play” because all my life I have loved magic and everything about it.

I was both bemused and once again amazed at His statement because I had no idea that this man was all that interested in me. Daddy did tell me though, that on Friday night when He did our Whip Scene, the Event Photographer went wild shooting us from every angle because He wanted to capture the raw passion, eroticism and sensuality which He saw vividly portrayed and unfolding before His eyes.

Quite frankly, I had not really been aware of His presence because by the time He evidently started, I was well past the “conscious awareness” of the comings and goings of the various Participants and Attendants. Throughout the course of the next day, we were inundated with a multitude of individuals wishing to share the expressions of their experience of our Scene and we both considered ourselves to be well blessed and in deep gratitude for this most positive and illuminating feedback which, once again, fed our souls and reaffirmed the vision of our mission in the lifestyle we honorably pursue.

As we continued toward “my appointed destiny”, which I by then, had begun to call this serendipitous event, images, thoughts and questions raced through my mind. Feelings of doom, death and fiery destruction rose unbidden from my subconscious. How was I supposed to prepare for something I barely knew anything about? How was I supposed to respond? What would be required of me from this new Master? My body was alive and pulsating with a growing excitement and I felt as though I would faint dead away right there on the spot as my Daddy placed me into the enfolding arms of “Master Q”.

Having no idea what to expect and trusting my Daddy completely in His choice of who He allows to Top me, I permitted myself the infinite pleasure of literally falling into and under the spell of ‘Q’, whose deep brown eyes appeared like bottomless pits of dark carnality and unexpressed passion. His gentle sensitivity calmed me at once; however the felt influence of His arcane talent completely and utterly mystified me. In my own inner knowingness and conscious awareness, the realization came to me in a nanosecond that, never before had I beheld at first glance, this type of depth and compassion in a Top save fore that of my Daddy and my former Master.

In that realization, I near swooned in delight and relaxed into the flow of the preparations which began to take place. I was asked to remove all of my clothes, not that I had much on to start with, and to place my hair back, up and out of the way, which I did quite happily with the clips I already had in it from Daddy’s Whip Workshop.

Between them, they placed special fire retardant sheets of the massage table when my body was to lie, along with a pillow which was placed beneath my knees and chest. My sense of time evaporated as I, in my mind, presented my body on the sacrificial altar of Pele, the Goddess of Fire. Master Q proceeded very slowly at first, exploring my tolerance for heat and my autonomic responses to fire. I heard His exclamations of delight but in no wise can recite back a single statement which He made. At one particular point in time, I remember lying facedown upon my tummy and thinking, “Well, this is certainly different. I cannot see anything that is being done and I do not really have a sense of what is actually happening so what in the name of God am I supposed to be feeling while He is doing this to me?” From that thought and question, I quickly jumped to the conclusion that this was going to be dreadfully boring and felt, in that moment, that I could go to sleep during the whole process.

In truth, I did not experience the usual endorphin high which so often engulfs me during a Whip, Spanking, Needle or Rope Bondage Scene. The actual sensation of heat was very pleasurable and did not bother me much because of the lack of visual input to stimulate my brain into a fear response, so I just lay there in a kind of bemused and curious state.

In retrospect, even as I write this review, I now realize that my subconscious was responding on levels I was not even aware of and my body reacted accordingly by delivering it’s own peculiar mix of fight or flight hormones.

Through a warm, fuzzy haze, I heard Master Q tell me to roll over onto my back and as He kindled the flames upon my body, He commanded me to open my eyes. As I complied, I beheld a most glorious and evocative sight. A yellow tongue of liquid fire raced headlong from my thigh up to my knee! I squealed in enjoyment and, raising my left leg into the air with my toes pointed skyward, I begged Him to do it again. Laughing outrageously, He happily obliged. When Q began to play a dance of fire upon my feet, I thought I had died and gone to heaven, so deeply delicious and erotic were the sensations. It was in those moments that I began to go where only angels fear to tread. My body became alive with a motion that undulated with the movement of the fire.

Daddy told me after the Scene that Q was filled with joy and that it was obvious He also had entered an altered space. Together we were a symbiotic creation, moving in unison to the compelling nature of the power of fire. Daddy was so very fortunate to be able, not only to capture images of the extraordinary dance of fire on film, but He was invited by Q to actually participate, which He did with stunning competence and creative ability.

During the final stages of our Scene, Q placed the palm of my hand over His solar plexus and, upon placing a ball of fire in His own hand, placed it over mine. The effect was dramatic and deeply connective and by the time we finished, I was so aroused that I began begging for Daddy to drive His magical fingers deep into my Yoni and pleasure me with a G-Spot Massage. No one, not even I, knew what the results would be. Quite suddenly, an eruption from some hidden subterranean depth occurred, the likes of which surprised and pleasure both Q and all the people standing about watching (so I learned much later). Like an artesian well, Daddy provoked such a release of the Nectar of the Goddess that it flowed up, out and over my belly and fell cascading to the floor around His feet.

For Q, this was in His words, the hottest and most erotic and sensual Fire Scene which He had ever had the privilege to do. He had been inspired to do things which He had never done before because of the dynamics of the Scene and He also expressed deep gratitude at having been the witness to such a powerful female ejaculation, which to Him, was the icing on the cake.

I hold the belief that everything is perfect in my Universe and that I am doing exactly what I am supposed to be doing in the very moment I am doing it and this particular event was no different.

Although Fire Play is considered by many to be an extreme form of Edge Play containing elements of excitement and increased risk of danger, it was perfect for me to participate in and experience in that moment. I will always be deeply grateful to “Q”, a Master at Fire Play, for giving me the opportunity to taste His most talented expertise and for writing to me, a most beautifully written email, from which I am quoting a few sentences.

“Little One, our time together was the best experience I could hope for when I share my Fire Play. Your reactions inspired me. I still feel the thrill when I think about being with you. You and your Daddy gave me a wonderful gift that night when you gave yourself over to me. Your gift overflows to surrounding people and that is what first attracted me to your Whipping Scene. Your complete surrender and offering yourself to your Daddy is a beautiful living poem, flowing back and forth between you two. I was honored to become part of your gift as people came to watch us enjoy the flames together.”

Return From the East Coast

2008-08-24T21:26:00Z

I am just now beginning to settle back in from our Trip to Floating World and the East Coast. There are many stories to tell and feelings to express and it will take me a little time and several postings to reveal all of them.

The Floating World is about more than presenting and attending Workshops. It is also about meeting and forming new friends with a deep connection that continues to echo in my thoughts and heart throughout the days and nights since our departure.

The Event itself was huge, with about one thousand participants and one hundred and fifty Workshops being presented from 10:00 AM to Midnight, from Friday through Sunday night. My Friday, Intermediate/Advanced Whip Workshop was from 8:00 to 10:30 PM, the Sunday Spanking Workshop was 2:00 to 3:30 PM and the Beginning Whip Workshop was 10:00 PM to Midnight on Sunday. I am happy to say that all of them were well attended. What was very rewarding for me was to notice that many of the people from each class came to attend my next one because they enjoyed my teaching style and learned new and interesting things from what I was presenting.

Little One and I were treated like Royalty by Natasha and all the FW Staff. They printed reams of material for my Workshop Handouts only mentioning briefly that they were printing more for my Classes than for any other Presenter. I do like to have handouts that are almost self explanatory books that will clearly remind the Participants of what we covered in class because I want them to pay attention to the Workshop and not bother to take notes. Interestingly enough, on the Personal Evaluation Forms, many comments are made about the value of these Handouts.

One of the first things I noticed upon entering the FW Registration Area was a large poster encouraging people to buy raffle tickets for an hour of Private Instruction with Jay Wiseman or Jonn Ireland and the money raised went to the Ashbury Aids Support Group. The winner of my raffle went to “Ms M”, a Female Brooklyn Switch. She wanted to win so much that she bought twenty dollars worth of tickets and made the comment to Little One that it was the best investment she ever made for her continuing education in the art of the Singetail. I felt happy and grateful that she experienced tremendous progress during out session.

Many of the photos of the event and trip require a little touch up in Photoshop but here are a few to start off with. These are of Little One and myself taken in the FW Dungeon during our Friday Night Scene, and also during my Whip Workshop and Spanking Workshop by our friend, Fire Play Expert and Photographer "Q", of "Full-Exposure.com". (More about him later).

Spanking Workshop

Whip Workshops

Floating World

2008-08-10T22:40:00Z

On Thursday, Little One and I are leaving for “The Floating World” Event in New Jersey, from the 15th to 17th August, 2008. I will be teaching three Workshops; a Beginning and an Intermediate /Advanced Whip Workshop, as well as a Spanking Workshop. There will be eighty Presenters and about one hundred and fifty Workshops. WOW!!! I will also be raffling off one hour of Personal Whip Instruction to benefit Floating World and the Center in Ashbury Park Aids Support Group.

We are very excited and pleased to be participating in FW and after the Event, we will be traveling to the Big Apple to visit with Aaron, Little One’s son, who owns the Hot Nude Yoga Studio. He is also Presenting a Workshop at FW called "Sensuality, Freedom and Yoga"

While in NYC we hope to visit with a few Kinksters and play at Paddles. I will give you a full report when we return.

Link to an Article on Floating World in Japan

Bondage and Impact Play

2008-08-08T05:34:00Z

I did a scene with Lil’ One the other evening while she wore a beautiful antique Kimono, which she had acquired in a tiny store over in Langley on Whidbey Island, Washington, while we were out on my Harley for a ride. While we were at that little shop, I also bought a Haori, which is a mid-length light coat that was traditionally worn by men over Kimonos to keep the actual Kimono from being exposed to the elements. Made of silk, it is delicately embossed with a variety of colors which show up in different lighting situations and it seemed only natural to use my Haori in the Japanese Rope Bondage Scene I had planned. Our dear friend, Dr. Glen from the Center, consented to photograph the entire Scene for us and we were thrilled with the shots.

I enjoy Japanese Rope Bondage, however I almost always prefer to combine it with impact or wax play. Of course, if I had used hot wax it would have made a very big mess to clean off of the ropes and I also did not want to damage Little One’s Kimono, so instead I brought out my Floggers and Whips.

In this particular Scene, I also used my cut down Kendo Sword to fit the Japanese Theme. The Sword acts like a cross between a cane and a paddle, makes a nice noise and hurts like Hell. I like the way it feels in my hand, the sounds it makes on her body when I hit her and since it seems natural and ancient, it places me mentally, in a preindustrial subconscious timeframe.

When a person is bound and I apply painful stimulus, I always have to tune in closely to how they are processing the pain. Most bottoms move at least a little to help them deal with the stimulus however, they are unable to move very much when they are tied up. I usually don’t lay it on as heavily in this situation however, readers can easily see by Lil’ One’s reaction that "something is going on for her".

In these types of situations, I strongly suggest that you encourage your bound bottom to breath deeply, not hold their breath and to attempt to turn their pain into an ‘erotic experience’.

My Experience of "In The Woods"

2008-07-30T05:57:00Z

“In The Woods”was an excellent, relaxing and enjoyable experience. Make certain that you write it on the calendar for next year as one of your must attend Kink events for 2009. The staff was very helpful and friendly, and connected to everyone in a personal way. They worked very hard to make certain that all of us were happy and comfortable.

The Workshops were the highest caliber possible and I admire and respect each and every one of the Presenters.

Jay Wiseman is articulate, very bright and thorough with an incredibly dry sense of humor. When the mosquitoes began attacking at dusk, he commented that we should all be protecting ourselves from nonconsensual blood play by six legged Tops!

Little One and I attended a “Play Piercing Workshop” by Brandon, of Boss Bondage in Oregon. He is extremely ethical, knowledgeable and precise in imparting blood safety protocols for this unique type of Workshop which involved true piercing procedures and the insertion of small gauge barbells into the skin of one’s partner. When I asked him what the difference was between the temporary piercing, such as what we were doing, and a permanent one, he said that he wouldn’t teach that to us because the procedures are more complex and that an infection would more than likely occur.

Now it was our turn to practice what he preached. I placed and clamped the piercing forceps on Little One’s perky, raspberry sized nipple to center the piercing and readied the needle with a three fingered grasp so that I could push the needle through. However, the needle seemed to become thicker and more slippery in my hand as I began to push its sharp point through that sweet piece of flesh. I got it half way through and became worried because I had to push harder to pierce the second half of her nipple. I don’t mind hurting Lil’ One to get her high, after all I do hit her with whips, but I was worried about damaging her. With a little bit of blood running down her breast, I fumblingly twisted on the second ball end of the barbell and got it to thread properly on the fourth try and after this experience I do not think I will change my profession to become a Body Piercer.

I was happy with the end result however I would be hesitant to do it again. After we admired her new nipple piercing, Lil’ One was so high that she begged me to continue piercing her with hypodermic needles, so we went back to our tent where we began to complete what became a very personal and deliciously intimate Scene.

We didn’t have time to attend Lee Harrington’s or Maria Shadoes Workshops but were able to talk with and spend a little time with each one of them.

Lee’s workshops are very personal and not about the “how to’s” of executing Scene techniques. They are more concerned with the deeper inner workings of a person’s authentic self discovered through BDSM.

Maria is beautiful and has a tremendous depth and range of knowledge regarding BDSM, life and bondage; also she connects with others in a personal and direct way. In one play party Scene, she actually did a self bondage that was an inverted suspension which took my breath away. All I could say was, “HOT!!!”

I saw Kelly demonstrate a beautiful “Fire and Fire Cupping Scene” which inspired me to want to learn the techniques and how to do it as well.

I wasn’t able to attend Robin Freeman’s Workshop on Needle Play however I did see the results on Icy. Until then, I had not even begun to imagine the wild, decorative possibilities which could be created with needles. Robin really thinks OUTSIDE the box and that is exactly why we attend events like ITW. We had a great time and plan to go next year too.

Now that ITW has come and gone, it is the time to prepare for Floating World and we leave for New Jersey and New York in just over two weeks.

Little One's Experience

2008-07-11T05:13:00Z

My submissive "Little One" has written a very expressive and personal story of one of our scenes and I thought that you would enjoy it too.

Little One's Experience

I float in a space somewhere between heaven and hell. I want more, but the words will not come to my lips. Even though I move my mouth to speak, nothing comes out. Nobody can hear me or understand me, except for my Whip Master.

He has flogged the flesh on my body until the very breath has been driven from my lungs. Shocking my senses, He has used His Cat O’ Nine Tails on every part of my body including, of all things, my feet. He strikes at them mercilessly and, even though I turn and twist one, then the other into all kinds of various positions, He finds His mark skillfully and easily.

I climb the Lattice Frame to the highest point, pulling my feet up under me, in the vain hope of escaping the fiery tips of His evil whip. Precariously perched upon the wooden frame like a giant bird, the Whip Master will not to be deterred, and begins to flog the parts of my feet which are not protected by the wood itself. As I squat there and shift madly from foot to foot, while attempting to use my body to shield my extremities, tongues of fire lick at the tender skin on the soles of my feet and I realize that there is not a single thing I can do to escape His Will.

I cry out piteously in my new found pain and begin to kick out madly at my tormenter and no, it is not my Daddy that I see as my tormenter, it is the thing He holds in His hands that is the enemy. My efforts however, prove fruitless and I begin, in an endorphin filled haze, to navigate my body down to the lower levels of the frame and yet, even in my retreat, He does not stop His continuing reign of terror upon me.

I drop heavily to floor, panting from the exertion of my flight and gaze in wonder at the image He presents, for surely I think, He must have some small measure of compassion reserved in His heart for His Little Girl. But au contraire! He carefully places the Cat O’ Nine Tails back into His Whip Case and reaches instead for His matched pair of Red and Black Signal Whips with the stiff and heavy braided handles and, with a mere shake of His head which makes the sweat soaked, damp, strawberry, blond curls swing about His face in a most provocative way, and a commanding, directive look from His azure colored eyes, I turn my body to the rack and present my well muscled ass cheeks to Him.

Some tiny part in me seriously questions my sanity and asks, “What are you doing here? This is not a walk in the park or a swim in a tropical ocean. This is real and this is pain personified!”

I acknowledge the voice and am vividly reminded of Paul Atreides “Fear Mantra in Dune”. I deeply identify with it and ride the sweet edge of terror my Whip Master evokes from within me. I allow myself to be carried by the bliss of surrendering to my Daddy, knowing that my ultimate submission is immensely pleasing to Him and that He is in that very moment in the process of fulfilling the exploration of His deepest and darkest desires. The ecstasy of this realization carries me forward and I bend willing to His direction.

Almost instantly, I feel the sensuous touch of my Whip Master’s double handed Florentine Strokes and fold my body over into a forward bend, where my hair falls down and brushes the floor gently and my forearms rest beneath my hair. My being screams aloud for this “Whip Massage” to last forever and my Daddy, who knows my deepest longings, happily obliges, but only for so long as He wishes. As I allow myself to be carried away in the hypnotic trancelike effects of the stinging manipulation of my muscles and skin by the tips of the two Whips, I sense that the strokes are getting heavier and that He is hitting harder. This causes me to draw myself up the rack, hand over hand until I am dancing about and ready to climb the rack again to escape His ministrations.

Elements of time become inconsequential and one minute begins to melt into another. I feel as though I am in a bubble where only I and my Tormentor exist. I suddenly hear the unmistakable crack of His Bull Whip and I am instantly alert, or at least as alert as my almost drug induced state will permit. I have a love hate relationship with His Bull Whip because it carries me further into the outer reaches of my consciousness than any other mechanism He has at His disposal and well He knows this.

The artistic ability my Daddy displays with this particular implement is legendary and I am like a blank canvas ready to be painted with a whole palette of wild and unimaginable colors. He it is that will shape the design and it is He alone that will decide when His masterpiece is complete. And so it is. He begins. The sting and the pain of the Bull Whip is unimaginable and I am brought to my hands and knees before Him on more than several occasions, falling on my face and kissing His boots while begging for His mercy.

He is not moved and, reaching for my hair, gathers it up in His hand and drags me back to the rack, commanding my obedience. He is like a wild creature, with the scent of His prey in His nostrils. I recognize the look as I gaze upon His countenance. I have no recourse. I choose submission and surrender my heart to Him.

I hear the Bull Whip, alternately cracking in the air and hitting my body. I groan aloud and hug the rack, praying for its solace but receiving nothing from it. My strength alone comes from within and Daddy approaches me with an offering of water for my parched lips and dehydrated body. As He holds the bottle for me and pours its life giving liquid down my throat, I experience a profound urge to express my yearning for the taste of my own blood and hold up two fingers before His eyes. In our non-verbal state, we completely and utterly understand one another and I hear Him say, “Okay, Little One. Two more…are you ready?”

Turning to leave me there, immersed in my own journey, He does not really wait for me to answer because He sees into my very soul and the very next thing I hear is another crack of His Whip with the tip of it barely brushing my skin. He says something but I cannot really take what He says into my understanding and before I know it, He hits me harder than He has ever hit me before. I scream aloud, expressing the pain such as a mortally wounded animal might do and once again fall to my knees. Through a red mist, I look up at Him standing there in all His glory, and know instantly that my Whip Master is not yet done with me. I once more crawl up the rack and wait for Him to begin again, which He does without another thought. Yet again, the air is split asunder and the tip tenderly touches my skin at least another three or four times then, suddenly, from out of nowhere and with no warning, my Daddy lays, what seems like, an even harder lash across the other buttock and, quite dramatically and unexpectedly, He is there beside me, enfolding me in His arms, caressing me and pulling me from the rack, all the while whispering to me that I am “perfect, absolutely perfect”. I can scarce believe my ears because all I can think about is that, in my viewpoint, I was a “perfect baby” and that I howled in a manner like I never had before.

Carefully and tenderly, my Whip Master places a pillow under my head and then wraps me up like a giant burrito in His warm, fuzzy blanket and leaves me to float in a warm, crimson haze of bliss where I am supremely peaceful and profoundly blessed to have experienced such exquisite sensations from the hands of a Master.

Floating World

2008-07-02T14:07:00Z

I am absolutely thrilled to announce that I have been formally invited to Present three different Workshops at “Floating World” held from August 15-17, 2008 in Newark, New Jersey, which is one of the largest Kink Events in existence. There are eighty Presenters making over one hundred and fifty-three Workshops available for the vast number of people expected to attend. This is the second year of “Floating World” and many of the hotels surrounding the venue are now completely booked. Please click on the “Floating World” hyperlink to learn more about this extraordinary event.

I am offering a “Beginning Whip Workshop”, “Intermediate/Advanced Whip Workshop” and a “Spanking Workshop” and, with just over six weeks left to prepare for a Coast to Coast flight along with making sure that I have all the materials I need for three Workshops, I am beginning to realize what a complex task this will be.

I am also very excited about the prospect of finally meeting Little One’s son, Aaron, who will also be presenting the workshop “Sensuality, Freedom and Yoga Workshop” at Floating World. Aaron, the Founder of Hot Nude Yoga in New York City, is a dynamic and gifted man who teaches Yoga on a world wide level and, to have both Mother and Son at the same Kink Event is truly amazing.
Because Newark, N.J. is practically on top on New York City we will spend a few days seeing the sights. Since I have never actually visited the Big Apple in my entire life I feel delighted to be exploring and discovering the largest city in America with Little One and her son. In fact, my Little Girl is bouncing off the walls in her excitement and I can hardly keep her contained.

In addition to the enjoyment of meeting a lot of the East Coast Kinksters at Floating World, we have plans to visit Paddles NYC to attend their big Mid Week Play Party and you can be sure that I will tell you all about my experiences

Photo of Little One and Aaron:

Barn Bondage Scene

2008-06-17T22:42:00Z

I am always open to doing a scene in a new, interesting location. “Little One” has this small Barn in the back of her property. No one else goes into the area, well on one side near the Barn is the 75 year old neighbor’s property, but he never goes out there. She had the idea to play there and cleaned up the area for us.

I like to use my Twisted Monk ropes whenever possible and the 10’ X 20’ U shaped open front barn wasn’t clean enough to do a whip scene; so bondage and sex seemed like a great idea for a scene. It’s nice to find an unassuming cowgirl in a barn tending to the critters and take advantage of her.

After we played for an hour the 75 year old neighbor decided to go into his very outback area near the barn to use his weed trimmer fifty feet from the barn. By releasing the line connecting her from the roof beam I lowered her to the ground out of the sight of the neighbor who hadn’t noticed us, and continued to take advantage of the cowgirl in distress.

Spanking Scene

2008-06-11T22:19:00Z

At the end of May, I loaded up my Harley (Ex) Police Bike and rode across the Cascades to spend the weekend with “Little One”, my submissive. Upon my arrival she is, as I have requested, inside her house waiting for me, dressed as I have demanded. We will not greet each other conventionally, with a kiss on the cheek, a hug or talking about my ride over the mountains. When we first see each other, we will begin our Scene.

However, on this particular weekend, my friend, her husband and life partner greeted me at the door. He would be leaving the next day on a business trip for several weeks but stayed that day just for us. Today he will participate as both a voyeur and the ‘official photographer’ of our Scene. I always like to photograph the private Scenes I do with Little One however, today was a special treat for me since he had offered his services, so I showed him how to operate my camera before beginning our Scene.

He was unobtrusive during the scene and took terrific photos and, as luck would have it, he got off a one in a million killer shot which probably could not be duplicated if we tried another thousand times.

This was to be a rather special Scene because Little One knew that I had planned on spanking her and she had acquired a small, black, velour ottoman to use for spanking positions and rearranged the whole living room to accommodate our Scene. I had been spanking my Little One a bit more of late because I like that specific erotic and personal connection I get with Spanking Scenes.

I have discovered that spanking can be much more than just a mere warm up and, it also turns out that spanking can sometimes be harder for the bottom (pun intended) to take than a Whip Scene. New levels of intensity, connection and sexual fervor can provide a deep drive to engage in Spanking Scenes.

“Research and Development” is always a most enjoyable part of developing new Workshops and I am looking forward to presenting my new Spanking Workshop at “In The Woods” come the end of July.

The next day, Little One asked me to park my Harley out in the Cherry Orchard so that she could play on it in her Wedding Dress. Photographing her is always an adventure and that day proved to be no exception.

The Scene Area

Whips are good in any scene

Other Areas to Spank

Yes, it's a Ping Pong Paddle

A Measure of Progress

The Light at Hand

In The Woods

2008-05-28T15:22:00Z

I am very excited about presenting two workshops at “In The Woods” in Bellingham, Washington from July 25 – 27, 2008.

ITW is a Kinky Campout and has been a very special annual event for several years in the Pacific Northwest. This year, the Event Presenters also include Jay Wiseman, Lee Harrington, Jennifer Skruwa, Boss Bondage and several others, all of whom I highly endorse, support and recommend.

I would love to see you all there and get to know you better. Please sign up early to attend so that you will learn a lot of new techniques, ideas and have a great experience.

The Workshops I am presenting are:

Beginning through Advanced whip Workshop:

This is an experiential class so please bring your whips to practice with in class. A few loaner whips will be also available. A Whip Scene can range from light sensual caresses to fiery rain producing welts and cutting the skin. The difference depends on the skill and intention of the Top and the consent and limits of the bottom. Each Scene can have an intensity rating of a ten. Whip Technique, Scene Set Up and Development are equally important for a scene to shine. The techniques and skills presented in this Workshop will be demonstrated on my submissive so that you can see how particular techniques may be applied in a Scene.

Workshop will include:
• Types of Whips used in BDSM Scenes
• How to Break-in and Condition a Whip
• Safety for Top and bottom
• Practice procedures for technique and accuracy
• Several ways to throw a Whip
• Common and uncommon areas to strike the body
• Whipping Positions to use without a rack or cross
• Bondage and Whips
• Whips in limited spaces like bedrooms and living rooms
• Using two Whips, one in each hand for Florentine, cross cracking and more
• Reading the Bottom
• Scene Development
• Individual issues and questions from participants

Spanking Workshop:

Spanking can always be turned into much more than a “Warm Up” and reactions to it can vary wildly from aversion to adoration.

Spanking can help foster a deeper level of connection, intimacy and eroticism with your partner and constitute a “Scene” in its own right. Psychological elements, negotiation, planning, techniques and tools specific for spanking, along with a little practice are some of the ingredients that make up this Workshop.

Long Whips

2008-05-21T06:05:00Z

Several years ago, the very first whips I ever saw used in a scene were six foot (nine feet overall) Bull Whips which were cracking back and forth about one half inch from a hot looking woman’s nipples!

Robert Dante, who has excellent Bull Whipping skills which are legendary, was demonstrating a Scene utilizing these long whips and because the demo was such a turn on for me, my level of interest was completely fired up and helped propel me into learning to “Scene with Whips”.

What I have learned however, is that most Play spaces do not have enough room to use Whips which are longer that six feet overall, from the knob in your hand to the cracking tip of the Whip. If I use a longer Whip, I notice that I begin hitting innocent observers, furniture and even other “Players” who set up a little too close to my Scene Space.

A whip with an overall length of six feet takes up six feet, plus the length of my arm, in a circle around me, so in actual fact I need a clear circle of eighteen to twenty feet around me if I were to only stand in one spot while I do my scene. Obviously then, longer Whips take up even more room.

Long Whips are dramatic and they can be used in many different ways then how shorter Whips can be used. Long Whips with a fall can be used to do very erotic Wraps but they will hit harder if cracked directly on the skin, so this fact must be taken into account.

The longest Whip I own is a four foot Bull Whip which is seven feet overall including the fall and cracker. I have included a photo of a very hot scene with my submissive, Little One, using that particular Whip.

Recently Todd, a good friend of mine, lent me his six foot Bull Whip which is actually nine feet overall. For next two weeks, I practiced with it and did a terrific scene with my submissive Little One. Since photography was not an option that night at the Center in Seattle, I do not have photos of that Scene.

However, occasionally at the Center there is a space specifically set up for photography! I have included some photos from that night of wrapping my beautiful and hot secondary partner, Lena.